The example I cited above demonstrates how our narrow thinking can be if we set ourselves up into believing what seems to be the obvious. If we look beyond the obvious and ask ourselves ¡°what if¡± questions, we may be surprised to discover that there can be many interesting answers and solutions to any problems. Life can be like a big noisy party. With music blaring in the background, people laughing and shouting and glasses clinking. But even with all these going on, it¡¯s still possible for you to understand the person across from you. Or even one from twenty feet away. That¡¯s because our attention is selective and we can tune out certain things and tune in to the things we want to focus on.
You can test this for yourself. From where you are seated, find five things that have ¡°red¡± in them. Suddenly your mind starts to focus and things with red starts jumping out around you. With your ¡°red¡± mindset, you see red on a book, red on a cup or red on a picture and so on. Likewise, whenever you learn a new word or phrase, you suddenly hear it being used around you. Or after you bought a new blouse, shirt or skirt, you might start seeing it around town. That¡¯s because people find what they¡¯re looking for. If you¡¯re looking for beauty, you¡¯ll find beauty. If you¡¯re looking for conspiracies, you¡¯ll find it. It¡¯s all a matter of tuning your mental channel to find what you¡¯re looking for.
We learnt how to set our mental channels from our formal education. Other important sources comes from our family and friends we hang around with. Through the years, you learn what is appropriate and what is not. Through this, you learn many of the questions you use to find out about your environment. You learn how to probe and search for information, which ideas to pay heed to and how to think about these ideas. Your educational background gives you many of the concepts to understand and put order to the world around you.
For example, if you were taught the right memory techniques to train your memory, you¡¯ll discover you can suddenly memorize long chains of numbers like credit card numbers or telephone numbers. As a student, your study skills will improve and you will experience accelerated learning. You¡¯ll remember complicated road directions easily and can memorize long grocery lists. As you progress with your memory training over the years, sometimes even unknowingly, your friends may even accuse you of cheating in poker games or bridge. This is because you can remember the card sequences and what hands are being played. People with memory training are also protected against Alzheimer¡¯s disease or dementia much more longer than people who don¡¯t have mental skills.
Much of our educational system work against the nurture of creative thinking. For example, in school, our teachers have always taught us how to find the ¡°right answer¡±. However, memory training and creative thinking is all about using our imagination to ¡°think out of the box¡±. By the time the average person finishes college, he or she will have taken over 2,000 tests, quizzes and exams, all gearing us to coming up with the ¡°right answers¡±. The ¡°right¡± answer approach becomes deeply ingrained in our thinking. This may be true for some mathematical problems where there is in fact only one right answer. The problem is that most of life isn¡¯t this way. Life is ambiguous and there are many right answers. It all depends on what you have been looking for. But if you think there is only one right answer, then you¡¯ll stop looking as soon as you find one.
When I was in college, one of my teachers put a small chalk dot on the black board. He then asked the class what it was. After a few seconds of awkward silence, we were all relieved when someone blurted out what seemed like the obvious, ¡°A chalk dot on the blackboard!¡±. The teacher glanced at the ceiling and said, ¡°I¡¯m surprised at all of you¡±. He told the class, ¡°when I did the same exercise a year back with some kindergarten kids, they thought of twenty things it could be, a puppy¡¯s eye, a stone, the top of a can of can, a jelly bean, top of an orange, a crumpled piece of candy wrapper, a Christmas tree ornament, a bug and so on. They were letting their imagination run wild !¡±. In the decade or more between kindergarten and college, not only had we learned how to find the right answers, we had lost the ability to look for more than one right answer.